Isidibanisi

Ngoku ekubeni sizobe imigca ethambekileyo eyaneleyo, kwaye wanelisekile kukuba imigca yakho ethambekileyo yonke ikumgama ofanayo phakathi kwayo, yonke ithambekela phambili ngokufanayo, kwaye yonke into ibonakala intle, sesilungele into elandelayo. Ayingonobumba.

Xa sibhala ngokudibeneyo, kufuneka sifunde indlela yokudibanisa oonobumba. Kwaye lo mgca uthambekileyo udibanisayo ubizwa ngokuba sisidibanisi.

Kwaye kukho enye into ekufuneka sifunde ukuyenza, inzima kakhulu, yile: ukutshintsha indlela esicinezela ngayo ephepheni. Kuba xa sibhala ngokudibeneyo, siyatshintsha ukucinezela komzobo wosiba lwethu. Kwaye sithi: nyuka kancinci, yehla ngamandla. Khumbula oko: nyuka kancinci, yehla ngamandla. Xa sinyuka, asicinezeli ngamandla. Xa sisihla, siyacinezela ngamandla. Kwaye oko kuthetha ukuba imizobo eyehlayo yomelele kakhulu kunemizobo enyukayo ecinezelwe kancinci, kuba imizobo enyukayo ngokuqhelekileyo ayiyonxalenye yemilo kanobumba, kodwa yimizobo edibanisayo. Ibalulekile, kodwa asifuni ibe namandla kakhulu.

Ngoku, kwisifundo esilandelayo, siza kwenza into enzima kakhulu. Kwaye ukuba siyayazi kakuhle, yonke into emva koku iya kuba lula kakhulu.

Ngoko uyawubona umfanekiso. Kukho umzobo onyukayo, obomvu, kunye nomzobo owehlayo, omthubi. Lo mzobo owehlayo ubuwuziqhelisa ixesha elide. Kodwa into esiza kuyenza kukongeza isidibanisi kuwo.

Ngoku, uyakujonga oku uthi, owu, kulula kakhulu oku. Kodwa akunjalo. Kuba okuza kwenzeka kukuba ii-engile zakho, obucinga ukuba sele uzazi kakuhle ngaphambili kwaye wazenza zalingana kakuhle, ziya kuthi ngequbuliso zingalingani.

Ngoko nantsi into ekufuneka uyenze. Kufuneka uwukope: nyuka kancinci, yehla ngamandla. Emva koko shiya isithuba esincinci, isithuba nje esincinci phakathi kwazo, uze uqale kwakhona: nyuka kancinci, yehla ngamandla. Emva koko jonga ngerula yakho ukuba imigca emibini eme nkqo, oonobumba i bakho, imigca yakho ethambekileyo, inokuthambeka okufanayo. Emva koko yenza omnye: nyuka kancinci, yehla ngamandla. Emva koko jonga izithuba.

Ngoku, okunokwenzeka kukuba ungafumanisa ukuba umgca wakho othambekileyo onyukayo nowehlayo, unobumba wakho i, uqala ukugoba. Asikufuni oko. Sifuna ukuwugcina uthe ngqo. Ungafumanisa ukuba uqala ukuba mfutshane, mfutshane, mfutshane, kwaye awufiki phezulu ukuze uchukumise umgca ongaphezulu. Asikufuni oko. Kufuneka ugcine yonke into inobude obufanelekileyo, i-engile efanelekileyo, nomgama ofanelekileyo phakathi kwazo. Yonke into intle, inezithuba ezilinganayo, ucinezele kancinci xa unyuka, ucinezele ngamandla xa usihla.

Kwaye njengoko uqala ukukwazi kakuhle, uya kuqala ukufumanisa ukuba unesingqisho. Nyuka kancinci, yehla ngamandla. Nyuka kancinci, yehla ngamandla. Yitsho ngokuvakalayo ekuqaleni xa usenza oku.

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